12 feb. 2009

Intodeauna vorbim doua limbi cea a cuvintelor si cea a gesturilor. Ce ascundem prin prima, dezvaluim prin a doua...

In cautarea unei relatii stabile. Sa dormim, sa alergam in dreapta si-n stanga, sa regretam c-am gresit si sa gresim din nou, sa-i judecam pe altii si sa ne absolvim pe noi insine, avem timp sa citim si sa scriem, sa corectam ce-am scris, sa regretam ce-am scris, avem timp sa facem proiecte si sa nu le respectam, avem timp sa ne facem iluzii si sa rascolim prin cenusa lor mai tarziu. Avem timp pentru ambitii si boli, sa invinovatim destinul si amanuntele, avem timp sa privim norii, reclamele sau un accident oarecare, avem timp sa ne-alungam intrebarile, sa amanam raspunsurile, avem timp sa sfaramam un vis si sa-l reinventam, avem timp sa ne facem prieteni, sa-i pierdem, avem timp sa primim lectii si sa le uitam dupa-aceea, avem timp sa primim daruri si sa nu le-ntelegem. Avem timp pentru toate. Nu e timp doar pentru putina tandrete. Cand sa facem si asta - murim. Am invatat unele lucruri in viata ! Am invatat ca nu poti face pe cineva sa te iubeasca. Tot ce poti face este sa fii o persoana iubita. Restul ... depinde de ceilalti. Am invatat ca oricat mi-ar pasa mie, Altora s-ar putea sa nu le pase. Am invatat ca dureaza ani sa castigi incredere, Si ca doar in cateva secunde poti sa o pierzi. Am invatat ca nu conteaza CE ai in viata, ci pe CINE ai.. Am invatat ca si atunci cand auzi un nu, inca mai speri la un da. Am invatat ca te descurci si ti-e de folos farmecul cca 15 minute. Dupa aceea, insa, ar fi bine sa ai ceva de spus. Am invatat ca nu trebuie sa te compari cu ceea ce pot altii mai bine sa faca, Ci cu ceea ce poti tu sa faci. Am invatat ca nu conteaza ce li se intampla oamenilor, Ci conteaza ceea ce pot eu sa fac pentru a rezolva. Am invatat ca oricum ai taia, Orice lucru are doua fete. Am invatat ca trebuie sa te desparti de cei dragi cu cuvinte calde... S-ar putea sa fie ultima oara cand ii vezi. Am invatat ca poti continua inca mult timp, Dupa ce ai spus ca nu mai poti. Am invatat ca eroi sunt cei care fac ce trebuie, cand trebuie, Indiferent de consecinte. Am invatat ca sunt oameni care te iubesc, Dar nu stiu s-o arate. Am invatat ca atunci cand sunt suparat am DREPTUL sa fiu suparat, Dar nu am dreptul sa fiu si rau. Am invatat ca prietenia adevarata continua sa existe chiar si la distanta, Iar asta este valabil si pentru iubirea adevarata. Am invatat ca, daca cineva nu te iubeste cum ai vrea tu, Nu inseamna ca nu te iubeste din tot sufletul. Am invatat ca indiferent cat de bun iti este un prieten, Oricum te va rani din cand in cand, Iar tu trebuie sa-l ierti pentru asta. Am invatat ca nu este intotdeauna de ajuns sa fii iertat de altii, Cateodata trebuie sa inveti sa te ierti pe tine insuti. Am invatat ca indiferent cat de mult suferi, Lumea nu se va opri in loc pentru durerea ta. Am invatat ca trecutul si circumstantele ti-ar putea influenta personalitatea. Dar ca TU esti responsabil pentru ceea ce devii. Am invatat ca, daca doi oameni se cearta, nu inseamna ca nu se iubesc, Si nici faptul ca nu se cearta nu dovedeste ca se iubesc. Am invatat ca uneori trebuie sa pui persoana pe primul loc, Si nu faptele sale. Am invatat ca doi oameni pot privi acelasi lucru, Si pot vedea ceva total diferit. Am invatat ca indiferent de consecinte, Cei care sunt cinstiti cu ei insisi ajung mai departe in viata. Am invatat ca viata iti poate fi schimbata in cateva ore, De catre oameni care nici nu te cunosc. Am invatat ca si atunci cand crezi ca nu mai ai nimic de dat, Cand te striga un prieten vei gasi puterea de a-l ajuta. Am invatat ca scrisul, Ca si vorbitul, Poate linisti durerile sufletesti. Am invatat ca oamenii la care tii cel mai mult, Iti sunt luati prea repede ... Am invatat ca este prea greu sa-ti dai seama, Unde sa tragi linie intre a fi amabil, a nu rani oamenii si a-ti sustine parerile. Am invatat sa iubesc, Ca sa pot sa fiu iubit... Am invatat k fast-food`urile au un gust asa de bun doar pentru ca dauneaza sanatatii. Am invatat ca parintii mei si`au facut treaba asa cum au stiut ei mai bine. Am invatat ca sunt cu adevarat iubit doar atunci cand nu`i nimeni in preajma mea. Am invatat ca atunci cand dai ceva iti este dat inapoi inzecit ... iar uneori chiar deloc. Am invatat ca dulcele nu`i atat de dulce daca nu gusti si amarul. Am invatat ca niciodata nu sti ce ai, pana nu pierzi acel ceva. Am invatat ca increderea este mult mai importanta decat monogamia. Am invatat ca cele mai importante caracteristici ale tale sunt inima si sufletul si ca familia e mai importanta decat aurul si banii. Am invatat ca iertarea este cheia fericirii tale. Si inca invat ... Viata nu e asa cum zic alti ca e .. e asa cum o faci tu ... Zambeste ... maine poate nu o sa mai ai ocazia... Zero sapte patru cinci doi noua trei noua sapte cinci. Sunt un baiat simplu si fara fite, imi place sa cunosc si sa leg noi prietenii... Asta insa nu ma poate face sa imi uit vechi amici. M-am saturat de oamenii care spun ca vor o relatie de lunga durata ( astazi vii dar maine pleci ). Desi nu imi plac aventurile, totusi am mici aventuri, altfel nu as avrea cum sa-mi gasesc persoana potrivita, insa in relatiile de scurta durata, adica aventurile, la fel ca de obicei folosesc prezervativul. Oricum pana voi da peste aceea persoana cu care sa am curajul si placerea de a face sex fara prezervativ cred ca va mai trece ceva timp. Spun toate astea, pentru ca am observat in lumea comunitatii LGBT totul se rezuma numai la sex, desi imi doresc mai intai sa cunosc si sexul sa fie pe locul doi....
Looking for a stable relationship. To sleep, running to the right and n left to regret c I was wrong and wrong again, I judge others and to indulge ourselves, we have time to read and write, to correct what am writing to regret what I wrote, we have time to do projects and not respect them, we have time to make our illusions and rummage through their ashes later. We have time for ambitions and diseases, to blame fate and details, we have time to look at clouds, ads or any accident, we have time across questions, the answers to postpone, we have time to shatter the dream and reinvent it, we time to make friends, I lose, we have time to get lessons and watching them after that, we have time to receive gifts and not understand them. We have time for all. No time for just a little tenderness. When to do it - die. I learned some things in life! I learned that you can not make someone love you. All you can do is be a beloved person. Rest ... dependent on others. I learned that no matter I would pass me, others might not passing. I learned that it takes years to gain confidence, and that only a few seconds you can lose. I learned that no matter what you have in life, but WHO you .. I learned that when one does not hear, still hoping to give one. I learned that you deal and you use the spell is about 15 minutes. After that, though, you better have something to say. I learned that you should not compare with what others can do better, but what can you do. I learned that no matter what happens people, but what difference can I do to resolve it. I learned that whatever you cut, everything has two sides. We learned that we should leave for your loved ones with warm words ... It could be the last time I see. I learned that you can still continue long after you said you can not. I learned that heroes are the ones who should do what, I have, regardless of consequences. I learned that there are people who love you, I look so I do not know. I learned that when we are upset right to be angry, but I have to be right and wrong. I learned that true friendship continues to exist even in remote And this is true and real love. I learned that if someone loves you as you wish, I mean that you love in my heart. I learned that no matter how good you are a friend, however you will hurt from time to time, and you must forgive him for that. I learned that it is not always enough to be forgiven by others, Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. I learned that no matter how much suffering, world will not stop in place for your grief. I learned that the past and your circumstances may influence personality. But you're responsible for what you get. I learned that if two people arguing, there is no love, no that is not no argument proves that they love. I learned that sometimes you have to put the person first and not his deeds. I learned that two people can look the same, And I see something totally different. I learned that regardless of consequences, people who are honest with themselves get further in life. I learned that life can be changed in a few hours, by people who either do not know. I learned that when you think you have nothing to do, When you shout a friend, you will find the power assist. I learned that writing, and speaking, may quiet pain inwards. I learned that people who know best, you are taking too quickly ... I learned that it is too hard you can tell where to shoot line between being courteous, not to hurt people and take your opinions. I learned to love as I can be loved ... I learned fast food k `s had a taste so good because harmless. I learned that my parents' and `have done as they knew them better. I learned that they really loved only when no one `s around me. I learned that when you get something is given back tenfold ... and sometimes not. I learned that honey `s not so sweet if you try and bitter. I learned that I never know what you got, until you lose that something. I learned that trust is more important than monogamy. I learned that the most important features are your heart and soul and that family is more important than gold and money. I learned that forgiveness is the key to your happiness. And learn ... Life is not like others say it's .. e as do you ... Smile ... tomorrow may not have the opportunity to ... Zero two seven five four nine seven nine three five. I'm a simple guy with no fite, I like to meet and connect new friends ... That I can not but make me look old friends. I am tired of people who say they want a long term relationship (living today but tomorrow go away). Although I do not like adventures, though I have small adventures, otherwise I would not avre how to find the right person, but in relationships of short duration, ie the adventures, as usual using a condom. However until you come across that person who got the courage and the pleasure of sex without a condom I think that will pass some time. I say all this because I noticed LGBT community in the world everything is all just about sex, although I wish first to know the sex and be in second place ....